It’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all

the pain of losing a loved one, nothing compares, if you lose a job, you can easily find a new one, lose your life savings, start again from zero. but for someone to come into your life and leave a mark on your heart, to then lose them, is like losing a part of your soul.

the old age saying of ‘its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all’ comes to mind. if they cause so much pain in your life when then go, is there a point in even bring anyone in your life, only for them to hurt you when they leave?

if we don’t allow people into our lives for fear of being hurt later on, then our lives would be hollow and void. with no love, no one company to look forward to, or even having no one to look forward to seeing you. that would be a empty life. even though we are hurt when we lose a loved ones but the happiness they brought us outweighs the pain of losing them

i was thinking of this concept when i thought of starting up my blog, ‘is it better to have tried and failed than to have never tried at all?’ what if i fail, what if people find out who i am, what if it stops me from getting a job in the future, the ‘what ifs’ were endless but if i stuck to the safe path of ‘what if’ all my life i would have never started walking. if,as a baby i thought what if i fall over when learning to walk i would have still been crawling.

if there one thing worse than failing itself, that’s the fears of failing.

the worse can scenario you get from a failure is experience, (it’s up to your how you use that experience, some people learn from it and become better after falling, while, others become worse.)

the second scenario is that you succeed.

the choice is yours, sacrifice now for a better future, or live in regret for the rest of your life.

Do it today or regret it later

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